Sunday, March 20, 2011

hello guys how are you and happy holi to all of you friends. aaj kal mei apni job mein bahut busy rehta hu na isliye zayda time nahi milta blog likhne ka toh isliye thoda samay lag gaya blog likhne mei.

mei roj subah utha hu or apne sapne ko yaad karta hu ki aaj ek or muaka mila hi mujhe apne sapne ke karib pauchne ka apne sapne ko sakar karne ka r isi umeed mei mein apna pura din nikal deta hu.par pure din mei bahut kuch hamare sath aisa hota hai jisse hume bahut nakamyabi milti hai or hum sochne lagte hai ki ab hum or jo bhi karenge vo galat hoga hamara atm vishwas girne lagta hai or fir jab din khatam hota hai or hum raat ko sone se pehle apne din ko yaad karte hai toh ye nakamyabi yaad aati hai or neend chali jai hai.hum jo bhi karte hai vo karne se pehle agar hum uske aant ke baare mei sochnege toh hum bahut kuch kho denge kyuki dur se jo rasta bahut dhundla or lamba dikhta hai toh agar hum pehle se hi uske aant ke baare mei sochenge toh nischint hi hum nakamyab honge, agar hum uske karib pauchne ki koshish karenge toh hum jarur kaamyab honge kyuki rasto pe chalte waqt hum pathar bahut milte hai toh kya un pathron ki vajah se hum chalna toh nahi chod dete na.

isliye roj hum jis raste pe chalte hai usme hum bahut pathar milte hai or hum unse takra ke girne lagte hai par kamyabi tabhi milgi jab hum khade hoke fir chalenge kyuki takrane se pata chalta hai ki hamare andar sehne ki kitni shakti hai.
thode dino pehle meine ek pankti padhi thi o pankti kuch is tarah ki thi
"race mei jo ghoda bhagta hai usse ye nahi pata hota ki vo kyu bagh raha hai vo toh sirf apne malik ko jitane ke liye bhagta hai or badle mei uska malik usse jitne kode marta hai vo utna tez bhagta hai toh bhagwan hamare upar baith ke hamare upar dukho ke kode marte hai humko jitane ke liye."

or hain ye sach hai pariksha mei ank kaam aane se na kamyabi milti hai, umeed tutne se nakyabi milti hai, jab koi dost dhoka dede toh nakamyabi milti hai, jab koi humko hara de toh nakamyabi milti hai or harroj hamare sath kuch na kuch aisa jarur hota hai jisse hume na kamyabi jarur milti hai par har nakamyabi ke piche ek kamyabi chupi hoti hai hume usse pechana chahiye tabhi aage chal kar hum apni nakamyabiyo ko kamyabi bana payenge. gir kar ruk jana koi samjhdari ka kaam nahi hai balki girkar uthna or fir uth ke sambhal ke chalna samjhdari hai or log bahut baar ir ke baad apne andar se uthne ki umeed kho dete hai or sab kuch bhul jate hai ye galat hai hamare pass bahut badi zindagi hai jiine ke liye usme jitna zayda chalnge hum hume utni zayda umeed nazar aayengi aage badne ki har insan ki kismat mei ek samay jarur aata hai jab usse vo sab milta jo vo chahta hai par vo samay bhi tab aayenge jab hum apni nakamyabiyo ko bhi jhelne ka dum rakhte hai kyuki jitna mushkil dukho ko jhelna hota hai usse kai zayda mushkil khushi ko sambhalna hota hai....

raste pe dheere dheere or ghaddo ke sath chalta utna hi mushkil hota hai jitna mushkil khali sadak pe tez bhagna jo insan ghaddo ke sath chalna sikh jata hai usse khali sadak pe tez bhagna bhi bahut asan lagega.

vo kehte hai na
behind every unsucessfull work there is an experience.....

god bless you and happy holi.
take care..

Thursday, April 8, 2010

shitij ke lafzo se pyar ki ehmiyat.....

this is my first blog........
aur mujhe kuch share karna h bus isliye blog likhna chahta hu......

log kehte h pyar karna asan nahi hota par usse nibhana usse bhi kai zayda mushkil hai and i think ki its tru ye sach hai.......mei hamesha pyar or in sab cheezo se alag bhagta tha par kab mujhe pyar ho gaya pata hi nahi chala or jisse kiya usse kabhi na batane ki kasam si khayi thi meine par kehte hai na pyar apna rasta khud hi bana leta h manzil tak pauchne ke liye to bus vohi hua usse pata chal gaya or ab i am in a relationship.par isseko kaise nibhaunga ye toh nahi janta par hain nibhaunga jrur or end tak le ke jaunga apne pyar ko.

Log sochte hai ki pyar sirf ek word hai hona hoga toh ho jayega agr kismat hui toh safal bhi ho jayega par mujhe abhi tak aisa lagta hai ki ussske hone pe toh hamara control nahi hai par hain usko nabhana toh hamare upar hai.meine kuch baate sikhi hai ki pyar mei chup rehna or usse sirf samjh ke kuch na kehna dono bahut galat hai.pyar mei chup rahoge toh duriya badhti hai or galat fehmiya paida hoti hai aisa mujhe lagta hai isliye hamare relationship mei ek galat fehmi paida ho gayi thi toh vo chup rehna jruri samjh rahi thi par jab hum dono ne isko ek dusre ke sath baitha toh mujhe vishwas nahi hua tha ki hum ek dusre ko aur aache se janne lagenge or us din ke baad hum dono ki ek dusre ke liye values hi badal gayi hai or bahut kuch badala hai jo ki ek positive change hai........


so shitij ke lafzo mei pyar mei galat fehmiya tabhi paida hoti hai jab hum chup rehte hai or dusro galat fehmiyo ko un dekha karte hai......so lovers dont do that......if anypone agree wid me then give ur reply plzzz oksss...... tk cr......